Monday, April 7, 2008
the show part II and other things
so the show went very well. in fact i would say it was a succsess. somethings i will do diffrently such as having kaitlin and lilly play alot more music and a whole lot less of me. but over all it was good so be on the look out for some more in the future. now for other things, this weekend was weird. i have a friend who recently moved here from oregon and she is living with her boyfriend, its not a healthy relationship by any means. i encouraged her to not be in it, she enetialy agreed that she should leave him and go back to oregon, then she decided to go back to him. in sociology we learned that for the most part people stay in a relationship because there is not a better option, i guess this helps prove that. old family friends from oregon came up this weekend as well, dan and amy theyre rad, especialy dan, he continualy says talking with me is like talking to a younger version of him, hearing things like that always give me a sense of hope for my future,
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Yo,
So the whole sociology and relationship thing; it's not that there isn't a better option, as there are always other and better options, it's just that the person in question can't see a better option. Despite the unhealthiness, it's necessary because they fear the alternative.
-Michael
ok, I'd not start making blanket statements about relationships. TA-DUM.
There are many parts of love we don't see. Sometime there is a very deep resonance that destroys any superficial signs of what is healthy. Often those resonances aren't public and occasionally not even acknowledged between the people in the relationship.
Yeah, maybe there's a lot of fish in the sea. But I'm looking for one super special fish. Scales like you wouldn't believe. Just one. If there were 5,000 or 500,000, I would still just be looking for one.
I dunno. You know me. I spent a lot of time trying to break people up in highschool. But (no offense, cause I did it for years, right?) it's kind of a shit way to go.
I meant to add, those resonances are good. It's a sign that souls are connecting, no matter how messed up the "earth life" of human being is.
While I would agree with rigor and cycle on the resonance and soul-harmony, I personally know people who don't feel the resonance, who stay in shitty relationships out of convenience. (They've told me this outright.) So while there are some shitty relationships out there that people stay in out of spiritual harmony, some do not. So you are right, we can't generalize. However, this resonance you speak of is not always good. If it lands you in a bad situation, then what good is it?
-Michael
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